I know what true love is. I learned it from my Grandma Marie. My Grandma was a great lady. I recall her telling the story of how she knew when she would get married to my Grandpa.
She had told me that Grandpa was off to war somewhere in Europe
fighting in WWI. They would write letters back in forth and after a
number of letters, he had written to her and stated that he was looking
forward to coming home so that she could wash his socks. I find that
fascinating to this day! I mean just think of that! Something so
simple meant the world to my Grandma. Now granted, laundry was much
more difficult 95 years ago, but still, the gesture was so simple, yet
had a profound impact on my Grandma.
Many people go through life struggling to "find" true love and never
do, while some of us are fortunate to find that true love. So that
gets me to thinking, "what made the difference?" Am I perfect? Heck
no! Far from it! However I have been blessed with being married to a
wonderful woman for over 25 years. I recall that Grandma liked Julie.
That meant a lot to me.
Here was a woman that had seen a major depression, 2 world wars and
several other wars, all of them with someone she loved fighting in them.
She had seen the automobile come to life, radio, TV, the moon landing,
microwaves and computers. All the technology of the 20th century and
she was born when the horse was the primary mode of transportation.
Grandma was born May 30, 1897, in a much simpler time, but a much
tougher time. And she knew that she was loved, because a guy wanted her
to wash his socks. I think there is a lesson in there for us today.
How much are we chasing after? How much of it is all that important?
Isn't Love the most important thing?
I remember this story from time to time, like I did tonight. It
always makes me smile, and tear up a bit, to think of something so
simple, yet so profound. I thought for hours years ago about how I would ask Julie to
be my wife. Grandpa asked Grandma to wash his socks.
Below is a picture of my daughter Emily with my Grandma at age 90 in 1987.